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  Pairing!!!!!

  by brandnew in

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  dangit.......like i gotta cook for this hot chick tonight, ........i rented a suite at the mayaguez beach hotel, and she's totally into me.

  i have my jeep....im still sore from my wreck....but dangit...im into this girl and i need y'alls help.

  im californian....kinda been in the tropic forrest..bout 2years....and need some southern help.

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  Lost his mind

  Pinot Grigio or Viognier are whites of choice. Cline makes a really nice Viognier.

  reds..I love zin but Pinot Noir is nice as well.

  and the single flower is a nice touch.
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  A question for mothers...

  by Bob Loblaw in

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  a human being, your child, was conceived, grew in you, and on one special day you delivered your child into this world.

  a truly miraculous thing in and of itself.. when you were a jw, although forbidden to celebrate evil birthdays (sarcasm), did your heart ever ache contrary to watchtower teaching and want to shower your child with love and thankfulness?

  i would think that if a religion were to believe in god, then their doctrine should have god somehow responsible for the act of procreation, birth, love, etc.

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  I have to say, my husband got a "note" from his sister saying she was so glad he was born, on the date that he was born! Is that not a birthday wish? But please do not celebrate. Really. What is the difference?

  Celebrate the love that you have. Children are a most wonderful gift.
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  I would like to say Thank You!!! Your advise, all of yours, has been extremely helpful. I can not express this enough. I did not send the letter/email, but deleted it after I let my husband read it. We had a very lengthy talk. It turns out that he would rather keep our marriage than become a JW. He believes that some of their beliefs are true but "scratches his head" at others. He deletes most of the emails he receives without reading them. I did not know this.

  I did not realize that my letter had the note of anger in it that some have expressed. My husband said it did also. I am sorry for this because I am not that sort of person.

  So now, I will work on my marriage and try to be less suspicious, angry, hateful at times, well a pain in the butt.

  Thank you thank you thank you again. The people on here are wonderful!
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  Thanks all. This has been somewhat depressing. I was hoping for you go girl! But I see your point about the can of worms. I am still pondering.
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  They don't stop by because last time we had a little disagreement and I was called a hateful woman. That particular elder said he would never stop by again and I told him that would be glorious. If you think this will prompt them to stop by, I will have to reconsider.
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  What drama would it bring. The elders do not stop by the house anymore. It is only some of his family that are pushing it. He hasn't been to meeting in two years and is not baptized. But they won't let up.
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  They don't talk directly to me. The send emails and make calls to hubby alone. When ever I walk into one of their conversations, they shut up. A lot of whispering.
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  I need some advise

  by Lost his mind in

  1. jw
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  following is a letter i am going to send to the entire family both jw and non.

  i would like to get your advice on whether i should do it.

  my husband has told me before to voice my complaints but i have yet.

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  Lost his mind

  Following is a letter I am going to send to the entire family both jw and non. I would like to get your advice on whether I should do it. My husband has told me before to voice my complaints but I have yet. So here goes......

  I am sending this to everyone in the family even though it is meant for just a few. I wanted you to hear this from me, not any second or third hand sources. Just an FYI.

  
  

  To ..........

  I would like you to read this letter and think about what I have to say. Really think about it from a personal

  
  

  My marriage has been in turmoil for the last 2 years. ***** and I are trying to work on it but your continual interference is not helping. I would appreciate it if the unsolicited advice, the divisive emails and the phone calls would stop. I would like for you to treat us as you treat the rest of the worldly family. I know you do not send the same type of emails or texts, have the same phone calls and conversations or have the same kind of personal interference with the rest of the family as you do with ******and myself.
  
  I do not stick my nose in your business. There have been times in your families life that have been traumatic. I could be more specific, but since this e-mail is going to more than you personally, I will refrain. Please note that I did not, nor did ****, interfere in your personal business. It is not up to us to give you unsolicited advice.
  
  Marriage is a bond between a husband and wife. They should be able to work on their problems without interference. But you won't let us work on it. I have asked for a divorce twice now. If this is your goal, you are well on your way.
  
  So, please. No more emails about this wicked system/government. No more conspiracy theories. No more religious guilt trips and propaganda. No more stories. Please just let us be like the rest of your worldly family. Let us heal our marriage.
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  My Parents Lost Forever?

  by Hold Me-Thrill Me in

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  my father served in the second world war.

  he served in the south pacific.

  he loved his time in the military and my mother was more than supporting.

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  Lost his mind

  The one thing my dad always told me " from the day you were born , you are dying". I sort of have to believe in that because of the accurate contradictions in the bible. I believe when we die we are gone, dead, unfeeling. The hubby once asked, don't you want to live forever. My answer..... Not with you people. He didn't really like that. And again, too much wine.